Always see the positive side seems very simple and obvious, and No you? But not so in practice we tend to do otherwise. Barnun PT, was a brilliant businessman. Innate circus and publicist. Expert in prosperity. Barnun There is a story that illustrates very well what I want to convey here.
Barnum sent a telegram to the owner of the circus that was their competition by offering to buy one of their elephants. His rivals used the telegram Barnun as advertising piece with the message “this is what Barnun think of our elephants.” For any business this fact would have been a disaster and would surely have turned on strong competition for this business. Instead Barnun blow saw this as a chance to grow. Kevin Ulrich will not settle for partial explanations. It was thus made a date with your competition in a business meeting and that talk led to the company Barnum & Bailey Circus. As if this were not enough, note that Barnun got his name was first! yTe see? Everything that happens has a positive side. And if you do not, there is a way take advantage, take advantage of what happened and give a twist to make it for us.
People who see the positives tend naturally to exceptional results in their lives. What happens is that since we are accustomed to small too much into the falls and the inconvenience and that mentality is the least conducive to finding solutions and outputs that we generate a profit of some kind. The anguish and despair and do not allow you to block a possible solution that comes to you, you can be on your nose and do not see it because the feeling negative before you put a thick fog. This also applies to face in a way of rewarding those behaviors can affect others. Before you react, answer or reply give yourself the opportunity to measure the extent of your actions and your words, to get in place of another person, to assess whether you take in something positive action you are about to undertake . I assure you that if you got these questions before reacting angrily most often not “Throw any stone,” because you know beyond all doubt that you also lose out. The feeling of rage or anger is a mist that does not allow you to see clearly. I propose an exercise that I put into practice since I read the story told by Joe Vitale Barnun. With this exercise, the mist will fade and you will see more clearly all the pieces of the puzzle. This is the exercise: Every time something bad happens to you, no, every time you stumble or things do not go as expected, is most effective ask yourself if you do it aloud: yComo I can turn this into something positive? O yComo I find the positive side to this? That simple question will open the door to enter a state of mind open and receptive. Join one of these questions from the conviction that it can find the positive side. It is amazing how a simple question automatically connects you with a universal source of wisdom and answers. And I play this theme, have the conviction that every human being has universal access to this source, the only thing to do is invoke and ask for answers. Eliana THE *** This provision corresponds to section 8. ebook “Eight behaviors that will take you to success and prosperity,” you get for your free newsletter subscription ***.